my sandbag, my life journey, my love
Date: Wednesday, June 12, 2013
How much have I neglected this place where I call my own? Fb doesn't seem like such a perfect place to pen down my saddest or rattling too much. They are friends all over the world from all over the years who are not close to your heart and may roll their eyes when they see you complaining too much.
Some updates of what is happening close to me.
Dad will complete chemo in a couple of weeks. The doctor in charge at national cancer center still wants to meet my dad after the last cycle of chemo and said he wants to give him something good. Perhaps vitamins or boosters? He just said he will tell us during the next visit. Lets wait till then and shall see what he says. Cancer is such a frightening sickness. First it strike my mum, and 6 months later den my dad. I felt it really tore my family apart. We couldn't handle what was happening. Especially me, crying and breaking down and so often, I ask god, why is this happening to me? Why my parents? I still don't get it till today. Did we all do bad stuffs in our previous lives and paying back now? Who can tell me the answer? Not feeling so positive. I know, I need to be stronger! From here, I realize how important insurance is because if you are not covered financially, you worry about getting adequate care and treatment and you worry about every other thing. It just flooded my mind because after my dad, I am the only source of income for the family. I am confident to say that I am pretty covered. Though the premium every month is rather taxing. What I learn from My insurance agent the categories I bought:
Hospitalization: except for birth and observational purposes, the bill is fully covered. Of course t&c applies.
Accident plan which I didn't buy. Even for injuries from basketball trainings like twisted ankle is claimable.
Life insurance: covers 30 critical illness including disability, kidney failure, cancer etc...
I also bought one to cover in particular female illnesses. Since this is the killer nowadays. It covers like breast and cervical cancer etc.
savings is also an important element I emphasize a lot to my younger brothers. It doesn't matter how much you can do, a comfortable amount lets say $100 a month I felt is good enough.
Ok I realize blogging is kind of tiring. I'll rest for now!
Signing Off~